How long has it been since you experienced an intimate connection with your husband that made you want to jump out of the bed and do the Running Man? For those of you who don’t know what the running man is, it was a dance that was introduced in the 80’s. Google it to get the picture.
When SEX gets put on your list of things to do in between folding clothes and making the kids lunch, let’s face it, things don’t look good for the home team! How long do you think you can you pretend to be excited about SEX with your husband when it makes the to-do list? Let me help you…not long! SEX and intimacy with your husband is supposed to be fun, amazing and energizing! I have heard way too many wives dread the thought of having sex with their husbands. Well, dread no more ladies, the RELATIONSHIP REVOLUTION is here!
Here are a few quick pointers that will help you get out of the rut!
- BRING YOUR SEXY BACK! What is it that makes you feel amazing in your skin? Is it exercise, more sleep, healthy food choices or a certain outfit? What steps can you take in gaining more self-confidence and getting the “swag” back that attracted your husband to you in the first place? Now, I completely understand where you are…I had 3 children in 3 years and gained 86 pounds combined during those years. So, I get it! It’s WORK! But, you have to make the effort to prioritize the things on your personal to do list that propel you into achieving wholeness! Bringing your SEXY back isn’t just for you; the whole team wins as a result.
- SHAKE IT UP! STOP BEING BORING! It’s like as soon as we get married or become a mom; we think we’re supposed to act differently. Yes, we have more life responsibility and we need to be more mature, but that does not mean boring! What are some of the risky and exciting things you used to do before you got married or had children? As long as they were legal, do it again. Change up your routine, do something out of the ordinary. Shock your husband!
- MAKE YOUR HUSBAND A PRIORITY! I know, I know, I know…there is so much to do and so little time. With work, kids, homework, dinner & household chores, who has the time and energy to be a sex kitten in the bedroom? But, wives…he is so worth it! Your bloodline depends on it! Intimacy and oneness in marriage is a critical component to leaving a healthy legacy for your children. Sex, intimacy and a solid, consistent connection with your husband offer a very secure environment for your children.
Don’t worry, I will be calling all of the husbands to action on your behalf as well and give them a few to-dos on their list. But, don’t delay in incorporating these easy steps to revolutionizing your marriage. Don’t exist in your marriage; it can be all that you dreamed, hoped and desired it to be! It starts with you. Make the first move! You won’t regret it!
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